Wendy Holmes
Thoughtful counselling for relationship and trauma issues
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About Wendy
Wendy Holmes is a counsellor who helps people facing relationship problems, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related concerns, stress and anxiety. She also supports those dealing with life changes, parenting strains, career pressure and low self-esteem. Wendy works from a collaborative, compassionate stance and encourages clients to pace the work to what feels manageable.
Her sessions aim to be practical and down to earth. Wendy listens to what matters to each person and helps them identify small changes they can try between meetings.
Background and approach
She blends different ways of working to match the issue at hand and the client’s preferences. Wendy has four years of professional experience and holds BACP registration. Her background includes training in grief and loss, specialist trauma work and therapies that focus on attachment and relationships.
She also has learning in sex and couples work and approaches that address complex trauma. Typical topics she addresses include abandonment, attachment difficulties, body image, chronic illness and caregiver stress, as well as areas such as communication problems and codependency. She has a particular interest in relationship-focused presentations including Relationship OCD and intimacy changes linked to female life stages.
Sessions are offered in English and Wendy practises in the United Kingdom. The process for starting involves selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and scheduling according to therapist availability. Costs vary with location and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
At a glance
- Years practising
- 4
- Registered with
- BACP
- Registration number
- 401550
- Languages
- English
- Approaches include
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy
- How sessions happen
- Online, by video, phone or messages
Details are as listed on Wendy's public professional profile. You can check any number with the professional body.
What Wendy works with
Everything Wendy lists, in their own terms.
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- Coping with life changes
- Stress, Anxiety
- LGBT
- Family conflicts
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Self esteem
- Career difficulties
- Depression
- Compassion fatigue
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- HIV / AIDS
- Hospice and end-of-life counselling
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Postpartum depression
- Post-traumatic stress
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Traumatic brain injury
- Visually impaired
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Approaches Wendy lists
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Narrative Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Somatic Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.
How Wendy works online
Choosing an approach is part of the work. Wendy will talk with each person about goals and preferences and suggest methods that fit those aims. Together they decide what to try first and review progress as therapy continues.
Confirm the exact online options before booking so you know which formats are currently offered. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, save travel time and allow shorter check-ins when that suits a schedule. It also means people can join from different locations within the United Kingdom without needing to travel to a clinic.
Questions and answers
What kinds of problems does Wendy work with?
She supports people with relationship difficulties, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy worries, stress and anxiety. She also helps with parenting strain, career issues, low self-esteem and ADHD-related concerns.
What is her therapeutic style like?
Her style is collaborative and compassionate. Wendy listens, helps set achievable goals and suggests practical steps clients can try between sessions.
How much experience does she have?
Wendy has four years of professional experience working with a range of relational and trauma-related issues.
What credentials and location apply?
She is registered with the BACP and practises in the United Kingdom.
Which languages are supported and can international clients join?
Sessions are offered in English and she is not currently accepting international clients.
What session formats are available?
Please confirm the current session options before booking so you know which formats are offered at the time.
How are fees handled?
Costs vary by location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to her availability.
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