Paula Appleton
Experienced integrative counsellor focused on practical support
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About Paula
Paula Appleton is a counsellor with 14 years of experience based in the United Kingdom. She works in an integrative way, blending different counselling approaches to match each person's needs. Paula supports people who are facing difficult life events and wants to make therapy practical and approachable.
Paula tailors sessions to the issues someone brings. She has experience with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, addictions, grief and intimacy-related concerns.
Background and approach
She also helps with sleep and eating difficulties, self-esteem, career pressures, ADHD and compassion fatigue among other challenges. Her work is influenced by methods such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centred Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy.
In plain terms she focuses on what matters to the person, on emotional connection and on practical steps to cope day to day. Paula also has skills in supporting Deaf and hard of hearing clients and uses Signed Supported English and British Sign Language at a qualified level with NVQ Level 6.
She follows the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy Ethical Framework in her practice and holds the credentials BACP and NCPS. Counselling with Paula is framed as a chance to take time out and talk through painful or confusing experiences. She aims to offer clear, steady support and to work with each person to find manageable ways forward.
At a glance
- Years practising
- 14
- Registered with
- BACP, NCPS
- Registration number
- 191689, NCS22-02588
- Languages
- English, American Sign Language
- Approaches include
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy
- How sessions happen
- Online, by video, phone or messages
Details are as listed on Paula's public professional profile. You can check any number with the professional body.
What Paula works with
Everything Paula lists, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
- Depression
- Addictions
- LGBT
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Sleeping disorders
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Self esteem
- Career difficulties
- Bipolar disorder
- Coping with life changes
- Coaching
- Compassion fatigue
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- Hearing impaired
- HIV / AIDS
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counselling
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intellectual disability
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Postpartum depression
- Post-traumatic stress
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Traumatic brain injury
- Trichotillomania
- Visually impaired
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Approaches Paula lists
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Existential Therapy
- Gottman Method
- Jungian Therapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Narrative Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Somatic Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
- Internal Family Systems
- Systemic Therapy
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.
How Paula works online
Finding the right approach is part of the work. Paula will discuss goals, preferences and practical needs and then agree a plan together. That collaborative process helps decide which methods to emphasise and how sessions should be paced to fit the person’s aims.
The biography does not list specific session formats, so please confirm available options before booking. Online counselling can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, cut out travel time and allow for shorter or more frequent check-ins when needed. It can also help when different communication needs matter, for example working with sign language or using adapted ways of interacting. Registered and accredited professionals can use these approaches effectively in conversation-focused sessions when they are adjusted to each person’s circumstances.
Questions and answers
What kinds of concerns can Paula help with?
She works with a wide range of issues including stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, addictions, grief, intimacy-related concerns, sleep and eating problems, self-esteem, career difficulties and ADHD.
What is her therapeutic style like?
She uses an integrative style and combines different counselling approaches to suit the person's needs. Sessions aim to be practical and focused on helping people manage everyday difficulties.
How much experience does the counsellor have?
She has 14 years of experience working with individuals across a broad range of issues and life stages.
What credentials and region are listed?
Her credentials are BACP and NCPS and she practises in the United Kingdom.
Which languages are supported in sessions?
Sessions are offered in English and American Sign Language, and she also uses Signed Supported English and British Sign Language at a qualified level.
What session formats are available?
The therapist's biography does not specify session formats. Please confirm current session options before booking.
How does pricing work for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with Paula?
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