Dilnia Horton
Compassionate support for relationship and family struggles
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About Dilnia
Dilnia Horton helps people who are feeling stuck in their relationships, struggling with family tensions, or coping with eating and parenting worries. She speaks English and Kurdish and works from the United Kingdom. She holds BACP accreditation and brings 13 years of experience to her practice.
Her sessions focus on making space to talk honestly about what is happening now. She aims to build a warm, non-judgemental setting so people can say difficult things and be listened to.
Background and approach
That makes it easier to spot what matters most and where to start changing things. She draws on a mix of approaches, including cognitive behavioural methods to look at thoughts and behaviours, emotionally-focused ideas to look at attachment and connection, and psychodynamic thinking to notice patterns from the past. Mindfulness techniques are used to help with grounding and reducing reactive stress.
Practical concerns such as communication problems, commitment worries and codependency are addressed with clear steps and tools people can use between sessions. She also works with issues like abandonment, adoption and foster care, body image, caregiver stress, and separation or divorce. Sessions are collaborative: goals are set together and reviewed over time.
The aim is to leave people with clearer choices, calmer reactions, and better ways of relating to others. If you want to begin, she asks that you use the Start Therapy button and complete a short questionnaire to match and schedule sessions according to availability.
At a glance
- Years practising
- 13
- Registered with
- BACP
- Registration number
- 337697
- Languages
- English, Kurdish
- Approaches include
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), Mindfulness Therapy
- How sessions happen
- Online, by video, phone or messages
Details are as listed on Dilnia's public professional profile. You can check any number with the professional body.
What Dilnia works with
Everything Dilnia lists, in their own terms.
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Eating disorders
- Parenting issues
- Self esteem
- Abandonment
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Dependent personality
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counselling
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Personality disorders
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Postpartum depression
- Post-traumatic stress
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Approaches Dilnia lists
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.
How Dilnia works online
Finding the right combination of these approaches is part of the work. She will collaborate with each person to choose methods that suit their needs, goals and preferences rather than imposing a single model. That means sessions can be adjusted as progress is made.
Please confirm current session options before booking so you know which formats are available. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life, such as reducing travel time and allowing sessions between other commitments. It can also make shorter check-ins or practical skills work simpler to schedule. Registered or accredited professionals generally adapt exercises and materials for remote use, and she will discuss how best to apply exercises to everyday routines.
Questions and answers
What concerns does this counsellor specialise in?
Dilnia focuses on relationship and family concerns, eating and body image difficulties, parenting challenges and self-esteem problems. She also works with related issues like attachment, abandonment and caregiving stress.
How would you describe the therapeutic style used?
She blends practical and reflective approaches, using cognitive behavioural techniques, emotionally-focused ideas and mindfulness to help people change unhelpful patterns and feel more present.
What is her professional background?
She has 13 years of professional experience working with people on relationship, family and eating concerns. That experience informs a calm and pragmatic way of working in sessions.
Where is she based and what credential does she hold?
She is based in the United Kingdom and holds BACP accreditation as listed in her profile.
Which languages are supported during sessions?
Sessions are offered in English and Kurdish to accommodate different language needs.
Can international clients book sessions?
She is not currently accepting international clients and works with people within the United Kingdom.
How are costs and payment handled?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability. Sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
What should I do to start working with her?
To begin, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.
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