Victoria Porteous
Therapist blending life experience and practical therapy
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About Victoria
Victoria Porteous combines personal experience with eleven years of clinical work to create a warm, conversational therapy style. She draws on her own life lessons, losses and time in therapy to shape how she listens and responds. Sessions are intended to feel human and down-to-earth rather than formal or clinical.
Victoria uses humour when appropriate and aims to help people feel comfortable enough to open up. Her background includes running counselling services for a Government-backed trauma charity during the Covid period, where she worked mainly with complex trauma survivors.
Background and approach
She also partners with charities that receive referrals from doctors and government agencies. Victoria has worked with leaders, athletes and public figures and is a regular radio contributor on mental health and social equality. Victoria blends practical talking therapy with evidence-informed approaches such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centred Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Emotionally-Focused Therapy.
She will sometimes respectfully challenge thoughts to help clients see different perspectives and find new ways of coping. Areas she regularly supports include stress and anxiety, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem, addictive behaviours and relationship and family issues.
She has a particular interest in estranged family relationships, blended families and step-parenting and also works with people around grief, career concerns and compassion fatigue. Victoria is qualified as a Menopause Healthcare Professional and holds NCPS as a credential. She works in independent practice in the United Kingdom and offers counselling and coaching tailored to each person.
To begin, clients complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule sessions according to availability.
At a glance
- Years practising
- 11
- Registered with
- NCPS
- Registration number
- VG00P07
- Languages
- English
- Approaches include
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy
- How sessions happen
- Online, by video, phone or messages
Details are as listed on Victoria's public professional profile. You can check any number with the professional body.
What Victoria works with
Everything Victoria lists, in their own terms.
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
- Self esteem
- Coping with life changes
- Stress, Anxiety
- Addictions
- LGBT
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Career difficulties
- Coaching
- Compassion fatigue
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Divorce and separation
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Approaches Victoria lists
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
- Internal Family Systems
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.
How Victoria works online
Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process. Victoria will work together with each person to identify which methods fit their goals and preferences. That collaborative discussion can include trying different techniques and checking what feels most helpful as therapy progresses.
If you are considering online therapy, please confirm which session formats are offered before booking as formats were not specified in the biography. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It can also allow people to use quieter surroundings or turn off the camera when that suits them better. Registered or accredited professionals and therapists often adapt exercises and tools so they work just as well when not meeting in person.
Questions and answers
What kinds of concerns can Victoria help with?
She supports people with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem, addictions and relationship or family problems. Other areas include grief, intimacy-related issues, parenting and career concerns.
What is her therapeutic style?
Sessions are conversational and personable, with occasional respectful challenges to unhelpful thoughts. She aims to make therapy feel like a real conversation rather than a clinical exercise.
How long has she been practising?
Victoria has eleven years of experience working in counselling and coaching roles, including managing trauma services during the Covid period.
Where is she based and what credentials does she hold?
She practises in the United Kingdom and holds NCPS as a credential. She is also a qualified Menopause Healthcare Professional.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English.
Can international clients book sessions?
International clients are not currently accepted.
How are sessions arranged and what do they cost?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I start working with her?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.
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