Thomas "Tom" Relevitch
Person-centred therapist for relationship and life issues
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About Thomas
Thomas "Tom" Relevitch offers a warm, person-centred approach to therapy. He uses plain language and steady support to help people manage stress, anxiety, relationship strain and LGBT concerns. Tom acknowledges that starting therapy can feel daunting and aims to make the first steps straightforward.
His working style is rooted in Client-Centred Therapy, which means he listens carefully and follows the client's pace. He also draws on psychodynamic ideas to look at how past patterns affect present feelings.
Background and approach
Solution-Focused Therapy helps him keep conversations practical and goal-oriented when people want clear steps to try between sessions. Tom has practised in the United Kingdom for ten years and brings that experience into everyday conversations in the room. He often helps people dealing with life changes, feelings of emptiness, guilt or shame, and difficulties with communication and attachment.
He has specific experience supporting people navigating non-traditional relationships and sexual cultures, including BDSM and polyamory, as well as multicultural concerns and men's issues. He also works alongside people coping with divorce, separation and infidelity. Sessions tend to take place during midday and afternoon hours, Monday to Thursday, with most availability between 12 noon and 5 pm GMT.
People who wish to begin are invited to use the site's Start Therapy button to complete a short matching questionnaire and book according to the therapist's schedule.
At a glance
- Years practising
- 10
- Registered with
- BACP
- Registration number
- 84670
- Languages
- English
- Approaches include
- Client-Centered Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy
- How sessions happen
- Online, by video, phone or messages
Details are as listed on Thomas's public professional profile. You can check any number with the professional body.
What Thomas works with
Everything Thomas lists, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coaching
- Abandonment
- Attachment issues
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Communication problems
- Divorce and separation
- Emptiness
- Family problems
- Guilt and shame
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Multicultural concerns
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Self-love
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Workplace issues
Approaches Thomas lists
Listing an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor names and does not check training records.
How Thomas works online
Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will work with the client to decide which combination of styles fits best, based on personal goals, preferences and what feels most helpful in early meetings. That can change over time as needs shift.
Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life, for example by removing travel and enabling sessions during lunchtime or a work break. It also allows for shorter check-ins when that suits someone's schedule, or conversations that do not require being on camera if that helps someone engage. The biography did not specify session formats, so please confirm available options before booking to ensure the practical arrangements match your needs.
Questions and answers
What concerns does Tom commonly help with?
He helps people with stress, anxiety, relationship difficulties and LGBT-related concerns. He also supports those facing life changes, feelings of emptiness, guilt, shame and issues around communication and attachment.
How would you describe his therapeutic style?
Tom works in a client-centred way, listening and following each person's pace. He blends psychodynamic thinking and solution-focused techniques to keep therapy both reflective and practical.
What background does he bring to sessions?
He has ten years of professional experience working with a range of personal and relational concerns. That experience shapes how he offers steady support and practical steps in sessions.
Where is Tom based and what credential does he hold?
He practises in the United Kingdom and holds BACP registration as stated in his profile.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English. He also accepts international clients.
What session formats are available?
The original biography does not list specific session formats. Please confirm current session options with the service before booking.
How are fees and payment arranged?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
What should I do to start working with him?
Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.
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